Please can someone just listen to me kindly...?

Its not that women go for a man that is physically attractive, its that as a general rule, women want men who challenge them and are conversationally dominant. It would be very, very difficult for a typical male to seduce a typical female who was in a position of power over him (for example, tutoring him). The best way for you to work on getting a girlfriend is to work on your own feelings of self-esteem and confidence. When you feel like you deserve any girl you want, they'll want you.